Undercover

So called 'secret relationships' seem to be popping out all around me these days. Maybe He doesn't think SHE will be accepted in the family, maybe SHE has strict parents and is dating behind their backs-maybe it's a little bit of both. Personally, I just don't get why anyone would agree to go 'undercover'. LOVE?? I absolutely don't think LOVE is a good enough reason!

Think about it. If HE loved you, shouldn't he be proud of YOU?So proud he'd show you off to His parents, friends and confidently say :this is....my Girlfriend, the girl I love or whatever line he has? In my book DEFINITELY YES!! There is no way I'd really love someone who wants to hide me. That is outright shameful!

But then, there may be situations when you think the 'secrecy' is for your own good. Maybe it's because of some cultural or religious boundaries that you are stepping over. Maybe he really wishes he could show you off but he can't. In that case, maybe the hiding has a purpose. Still, the fact is all these MAYBE's are very seldom.

Well, I guess I don't expect couples to be as showy as I'd be if I was in their place but I surely don't get why they hide it. Why they act like 'just friends' in public. I mean, how can you treat someone special so normally?

It's really not wrong but I find it deceptive. Letting everyone know is a protection in so many ways. On top of that it makes you feel loved, secure...etc..

I can't control anyone's life but my own. I hereby promise I'd never ever hide anyone I love. I will(note the future tense used..LOL) Facebook it, twitter it, myspace it, blog it and whatever networks are developed by then:) Nobody will have to ask me who I'm 'with'. It'll be so obvious, even the dumbest person will understand. Just being Cornie? Nope-Just being ME^_^

Oh, and I'll expect the same to be done for me obviously...:D