Sundays

I don't know anyone who doesn't just love Sundays!For sure , we all have our own reasons for looking forward to Sunday, I was thinking of what makes mine so special.So I'm gonna try to list some reasons..

S-spiritually
U-uplifting
N-no-worries
DAY

*no work!
*seeing wide smiles the moment you enter the KH (not something you see everyday!)
*wearing your best dress, heels etc (looking so girly.lol)
*finding new points in the PT
*simplifying answers for the kids in the WT(they compete for the most answers!:D)
*listening to the kids do their best to read the hard words just to answer(soo cute!)
*stuttering over the lyrics in the new songs.(can't help but giggle.hahaha..)
*trying to greet and talk to as many as you can afterward
*eating lunch under the tree (using hands, sharing vian and our fav fruit salad!@_@)
*taking a quick nap(barley sleep-too talkative.hehe)
*preach whole pm (catch up with latest happenigs^_^)
*get together at night(sing and dance:) oh..and share xperiences ) or sleep overs (movie marathon time!!)
*getting to spend the whole day with your spiritual family!!
* sleep quite late with a wide smile on my face....

Don't you just wish every day was a Sunday???Well, one hour to go and my happy day begins!!HAVE A BLISSFUL SUNDAY EVERYONE!!<*_*>

Womans rules

I'm taking a break from burning my brain cells analyzing stuff-brain drain so until I get some 'genius' ideas, time for some plurgery.lol.. Found this here:http://my.opera.com/SerbianFighter/blog/.

1. The Female always makes The Rules.
2. The Rules are subject to change without notice.
3. No Male can possibly know all The Rules.
4. If the Female suspects the Male knows all The Rules, she must immediately change some of The Rules.
5. The Female is never wrong.
6. If it appears the Female is wrong, it is because of a flagrant misunderstanding caused by something the Male did or said wrong.
7. If Rule #6 applies, the Male must apologize immediately for causing the misunderstanding.
8. The Female can change her mind at any time.
9. The Male must never change his mind without the express written consent of The Female.
10. The Female has every right to be angry or upset at any time.
11. The Male must remain calm at all times, unless the Female wants him to be angry or upset.
12. The Female must, under no circumstances, let the Male know whether she wants him to be angry or upset.
13. The Male is expected to read the mind of the Female at all times.
14. At all times, what is important is what the Female meant, not what she said.
15. If the Male doesn't abide by The Rules, it is because he can't take the heat, lacks backbone, and is a wimp.
16. If the Female has PMS, all The Rules are null and void and the Male must cater to her every whim.
17. If the Male, at any time, believes he is right, he must refer to Rule #5.

Might sound a little feminist but believe it or not-everything is true! If any of you guys can accept these rules then you're in for a very bright love-full future..

LDLA

If you're wondering-"Long Distance Love Affair"(LDLA) acronym created by yours truly:)Well?Are you for or against?If you'd asked me maybe a year or more back, I'd definitely had said "NO WAY"!I had this strong belief that long distance relationships are simply non-starters.There just are some things*important things* that you can only see in person.Like how the person acts when he/she is angry or how he/she treats others-small things but very important.In time though, I made a modification to the 'NO long distance' idea-if you've at least met before and have some common friends then continue you're relationship via text or phone(long distance), then that might be an exception to the rule.I mean, you at least have to know something about the person right??Or have someone you can ask about them?How else would you know anything he/she says is true?They say that's called 'trust' but I don't buy it-trust is earned not assumed.Ok, so lets get to the present.What do I think now? One thing hasn't changed for sure-total strangers starting a relationship long distance?very risky(I'd never consider it)Friends who became separated by distance? You know each other so-Yes. You met, have some common friends maybe see each other once in a while?Possible-It would all depend on how much you've so far learned about each other and stuff.Why my change in opinion?Let's say I've got a friend who seems very happy in her long distance relationship, in fact they're getting married!So, it got me thinking...it is possible after all in fact there are advantages.For example you avoid any mmm..let's say 'accidents'-the further, the safer right?No wait, what happens when you see each other after a long time??Ooops..ok that's not an advantage..How about you learn trust?And communicating better*since you don't talk in person* ?And you still have your life without any 'eyes' close by!that's a sure thumbs up..:D Anyway, I'm not an LDLA expert(haven't tried it) but who knows? I might end up eating my words so better be open minded right??Like they say: "Absence sharpens love, presence strengthens it."...just might be true after all^_^

Accountablility

A dear friend of mine has this 'theory',according to her-"You are responsible for what you make a person feel".That's why girls and boys can't remain 'just' friends, sooner or later one of them will develop some romantic feelings which will then either result in a happy ever after or heartbreak.It's a fact-you spend more than the usual time talking, spending time together, you become fond of one another! The only way to prevent this she says is to realize you're fully accountable to what the other person feels.In short,if you start caring more than usual, making the other person feel special somehow and maybe eventually fall in love with you-YOU are accountable! Lesson:Be very aware of how you might make somebody feel.Think twice, even thrice before you speak.But I somewhat disagree with this notion.There are misunderstandings,you can be very innocent but your actions might be interpreted differently.That's definitely not your fault!Then there are people who are naturally sweet and caring.Anyway, I guess it really boils down to being responsible for your actions.Friendship often ends up in love but things might become complicated though if the feeling wasn't mutual.OUCH...Personally, I wouldn't mind falling for a friend-in fact that would be my perfect love story.:)

Music-a voice inside?

I've become quite a music 'addict' lately, it just made me think why do we turn to music when we're happy, sad, heart-broken or in love??Like any unexplainable emotion can somehow be expressed through songs!I have this theory that whether we're aware of it or not-the kind of music we listen to somehow is related to how we feel, the voice inside especially when we're mute by the words of our hearts.In short-there's nothing like 'just a song' especially when it happens to be out of the genre we usually listen to.It's either you feel like the lyrics in the song or there's someone you're thinking of that you'd want to say those words to.I'm not saying every single song we listen to has some hidden meaning or something but that we can personally relate to quite a majority of our current 'favorite' songs.It really does all make sense once you think of it, maybe that's why those into 'Emo' music dress the way they do, i bet they feel that way too!And that's why people in love can feel like a song was made especially for them,the lyrics a perfect reflection of their feelings.Maybe thats why you catch yourself smiling or eyes getting watery when listening to a certain song. Try reviewing your play list-it could be a big eye-opener to what's going on inside that heart and mind of yours! So??What kind of songs have you been listening to lately?