Accountablility

A dear friend of mine has this 'theory',according to her-"You are responsible for what you make a person feel".That's why girls and boys can't remain 'just' friends, sooner or later one of them will develop some romantic feelings which will then either result in a happy ever after or heartbreak.It's a fact-you spend more than the usual time talking, spending time together, you become fond of one another! The only way to prevent this she says is to realize you're fully accountable to what the other person feels.In short,if you start caring more than usual, making the other person feel special somehow and maybe eventually fall in love with you-YOU are accountable! Lesson:Be very aware of how you might make somebody feel.Think twice, even thrice before you speak.But I somewhat disagree with this notion.There are misunderstandings,you can be very innocent but your actions might be interpreted differently.That's definitely not your fault!Then there are people who are naturally sweet and caring.Anyway, I guess it really boils down to being responsible for your actions.Friendship often ends up in love but things might become complicated though if the feeling wasn't mutual.OUCH...Personally, I wouldn't mind falling for a friend-in fact that would be my perfect love story.:)