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Tuesday, October 5, 2010

Letting Go



At one point in our lives, we all have to let go. No, i'm not implying that I've letting go of someone i Love. Love is in fact not the only thing you have to learn to let go of. It may be anyone or anything that for some reason must be 'set free.

Friends sometimes need to let go of each other. This can be really hard. You've just spend so much time with each other that you can finish each others sentences but change simply must be respected.

Change is what often forces us to let go of people. Sometimes, no matter how much we'd love to keep each others company forever, we cant. Maybe they've become a bad influence on us and we must protect ourselves by letting go. Or perhaps, circumstances change like they're getting married or changing residence-maybe even both! Whatever the case, sometimes, we must swallow hard, shed a tear and move on.

Its interesting how letting go can affect us. The people you have around you greatly make up who you are. You can't be the same after someone walks out of your life. The secret here is to make it help you grow or else you'll be hurting for a very long time.

Off course you can still keep in touch and keep up with each others lives-that's what technology's for right? Still, things will never be the same.

Well, I guess you have to let each other go. Accept the fact that you're friendship has to change and that you're entering a new chapter in life. This I believe will prove how true a friend you really are. Holding on is very selfish.The art of letting go isn't something you can read about or even learn from others. It's something we all have to gain the mastery of and understanding that it's part of life is harder than we think.

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