Fight for love?

It's common for people to say you have to fight for love.That if you really love someone you won't just let them go, you'll fight to have them stay.I think fighting for 'your' love makes more sense, doing everything you both can do to keep your love alive-still fighting.But as for the 'if you really love someone, you'd fight'?Nope.How about the song or is it quote "if you really love someone, you'd let them go and if they return, you'll know they're really yours".Makes more sense to me.If you truly love someone, you'd only want their happiness, even if it meant not being with you:( It's very selfish to 'fight' for someone who wants to leave. Think:would you be able to get over the fact that they wanted to leave?But how about letting someone 'slip out of your hands'?I think it depends.If you let them 'slip' because you feel they'd be happier without you,that's unselfish right?But who's to say they'd be happier without you??Them right? Or how about the famous 'i'm not good enough for him/her' line? Again, who says you're not good enough?!I think many have lost a good chance at love because of this 'low self-confidence' notion. True, they might be 'better', more mature, or whatever than you in some way, but that doesn't mean they need or even want someone of that caliber!Compatibility remember?So, please don't use that line anymore ok? ;) Never think someone's 'too good' for you unless THEY say so or somehow hint so.Why?You just might be walking away from someone who actually likes you and doesn't one bit think they're too good for you!-big loss:( I think many people over-estimate or 'idolize' people who in fact view themselves as 'normal', nothing special,It's others who label someone as 'too good'not that they think so much of themselves or anything.My point?It's not for you to say who's 'too good' for you;if they thought they were, it'd show (ie.they wouldn't like you in the first place). Conclusion:Don't fight for love, let go if you have to but make sure not to 'burn your own bridges'.xox